How To Attract Women

Attracting women is easier said than done. Advice from so-called seduction gurus has men everywhere utilizing techniques that get them nowhere. A lot of these moves are nothing short of dating mistakes. All they do is take advantage of guys with low self esteem who are desperately looking for ways on attracting women.

I think comedian Chris Rock put it best when he said that a woman knows if she's gonna sleep with you within the first five minutes of meeting you. If you're frustrated at the thought of this, don't be. If anything, you should be grateful that a women gives you any time at all! Also, five minutes is plenty of time to fulfill your goal of attracting women.

The bad news is that you could be making mistakes in how you interact with women. The good news is that you can fix these mistakes. If you want to seduce the opposite sex, you must eliminate everything that is holding you back. That includes all the negative global beliefs you have about women, what women could get you, and also the fear of rejection.

The following are four of the most common dating mistakes made by men. Fix these early and your love life will change dramatically.

Lying

While a white lie here and there is harmless, repetitive lying will only damage your credibility. There's a universal law that states "what goes around, comes around," and lying certainly qualifies.

People lie to avoid the discomfort that goes along with being honest. However, nothing is worse than getting caught in a lie, so be truthful at all times. If anything, don't give up too much information about yourself in the beginning stages of attracting women. The less you say, the less that can be used against you. It also makes you mysterious, and mysterious is very sexy.

The biggest instance of lying to women involves dating more than one girl. Rather than juggle partners, let each girl know that she's one of many in your life. If she's okay with sharing you, great; if not, at least you'll avoid an outburst upon being discovered.

Bad Character

In life and love, you're only as good as your word. A man who respects himself and others is of high character and very appealing to women.

Don't say one thing, and do something else. If you make a promise, keep it. Be confident in all that you do, but consider the feelings of others. Women find strong character irresistible!

Low Confidence

There's nothing sexier than a man who's confident. Do not seek the approval of others; this will only show your weak side. If you think highly of yourself, women will too.

Some guys go overboard when it comes to confidence, opting instead to act like jerks. True confidence is solid in and of itself. A man who possesses it does not feel the need to boast. He lets his accomplishments speak for themselves.

Playing Chicken

It is not uncommon nowadays for men to sit idle, failing to approach women. They wait for women to make the first move, only to be disappointed. If you want to improve your game, you must understand one truth:

Women rarely make the first move.

As natural hunters, it's the men who must do the chasing. Women expect it; they want it! It's understandable that you might be nervous about talking to a girl for the first time, but you'll never know unless you try. The more you practice, the more confident you'll become.

In the beginning, if you are absolutely terrified of rejection, don't try and "pick up" women in the beginning...just approach them. Then test out all the tips you've learned on attracting women and all will fall into place. Even at this stage when you're "practicing" and don't have many expectations, you'll be surprised at how effective this information is when you're attracting women and getting numbers.

Final Thoughts

The only thing worse than making a mistake is not learning from it. By recognizing your shortcomings when approaching women, you can focus on how to fix them. As soon as you do, you'll be amazed at the difference in your seduction efforts.